i hate what this world has become.
Anonymous asked:
so um i know this girl, and basically i've been madly in love with her since freshmen year, and she just doesn't seem to get it and believe me when i tell her how i feel... she's been destroyed by pervious relationships, and i just dont know what to do. I mean every song i listen to reminds me of her, sad, happy, sappy love song, it all reminds me of her... what should i do? i know you dont know me, but i need a girl's opinion. mind helping me out? it would help a lot..

hi :) so im not sure if youre the same person as earlier. if you are then hello again :P if not then hi. xP anyways, girls are insecure about everything. they never believe good things that people tell them. its just how we work. and talking from experience, its really hard for people that have been destroyed in the past…we tend to have issues on trust and love and it makes us not very skilled lovers. although most times were destroyed because we love too much too easily. just remind her that youre always there for her no matter what. every girl needs support. i know i do. its really nice to feel the support from guys. its not that she doesnt want to believe you when you try to tell her you love her or how you feel, its that shes scared after all that shes been through. love is scary for us girls and sometimes its just rough. we get used to it sooner or later, so just keep reminding her how you feel. sooner or later she’ll start to believe it. dont give up on your friendship. itll take a while, but dont give up. the last thing a girl wants is to feel abandoned. im always here for you anon or not, so if you need me you know what to do :)


Anonymous asked:
Hey, so um you don't know me.. but you seem really nice, and i don't know i guess i just need to tell someone this.. Soo i'm in love with my best friend and i can't take my eyes off of her, she's always on my mind 24/7 and i'm just amazed by her. She leaves me speechless every time and whenever we talk i get all tongue tied.. I know i'm not perfect, but i swear i could treat her like a princess.. we had our run, but she broke up with me and shes with another guy now... i dont know what to do :'(

hey :) so i just got this now, sorry i didnt get back to you sooner. i was at a performance thing and then dinner. but um, do what your heart tells you to. if shes your best friend don’t let her go. stay friends. trust me, it’ll mean the world to a girl if she does all she can to push you away and you still stay there and support her. i hope you’re doing okay and if you ever need anything im always here for you. anon or not :)


i don’t want to get hurt again, but more importantly, i don’t want to hurt you again..

and right now im falling back into hurting the people i care most about.. :(